I am Midwest born and raised. I had some wanderlust when I was young but ended up back in Nebraska, then to Iowa. All of my "raisin" is influenced by the way of friendly Midwest ways.
My beautiful niece Theresa is born and raised in Eugene Oregon. She has learned everything she was influenced by mostly in Oregon with a small bit of Midwest from her visits to Grandpa and Grandma's house. This woman is the sweetest, kindest, most considerate person you could ever want to meet.
A few weeks ago I went to Theresa and Joe's house for lunch. We had a wonderful afternoon with an amazing lunch and great conversation. When I decided it was time to leave I announced my intention and Theresa and Lisa (my great niece) started gathering up whatever was on the table and got ready to see me off. I was out the door and on my way in less than 1/2 an hour.
If this lunch had taken place in Nebraska or Iowa the host would have recognized my need to leave, then start up an entirely new conversation. Needing to take my leave I would move toward the door but would need to look at something that was forgotten all day, and another conversation. This would continue for a good hour or more. My host would walk me out to my car, then remember something she/he wanted to send home with me. Another conversation would take place, maybe going back into the house, or out to the chicken coop to look at something. Along the way we might need to take a look at the garden and perhaps pick a few vegetables. By the time I actually get in my car and head for home a couple of hours has passed, and it is likely getting dark outside. Midwestern people are way to cordial and time thieves. (LOL) My sister Betty has lived in Oregon for 60+ years .... she is still a midwestern girl at heart. (I wonder how I am going to be able to get on the train on time when I leave!!)
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